• Forgiveness

    If you want to go somewhere there is necessity to throw away or leave some your valuables. Forgive others is the wisest thing to do. I am not saying to forget your pain. But rather think that you it is not worth it for you to let yourself suffer. It will not happen for an instant; it is a process. I will not be saying to forget it and let yourself to suffer because of wrongdoings. All I am saying to entrust your pain and hatred to God. You know that He is the only one who knows everything. It is accepting with all our heart that we are also a sinner. We commit mistakes, maybe someone is suffering because of us. We have all shortcomings. Offer all your pain and suffering to Him.

    Free yourself from unnecessary pain. Healing comes from accepting that you are also sinners. Forgive yourself for all the wrong decisions you committed. You are still learning. You do not need to be perfect. You are still in the working progress. You cannot govern yourself. You needed someone to guide you. You are still learning about life. You tear and sacrifice will have its reward. Maybe not today but I am sure it will happen. Leave all your unnecessary baggage and focus in where you are going. Look around there nothing permanent in this world.

    Self-destruction come from the thinking of entitlement. If you humbling accept that everything, we have is just a product of mercy. There is nothing we cannot do to deserve everything. We have nothing to be proud of. We are just a dust. In this wide universe we hold no importance. Everything we have is just entrusted to us. Even this life we do not own it. Everything you have should be used to serve others. In serving others you creating value. Every responsibility has its benefits. You cannot reap without sowing something. Never do the taking. The universe gives reward for those who are willing to sacrifice. Everything you give will be rewarded. Never ask for something but what you can offer. This is the beginning of your biggest turnaround of your life. Offer your time, talent and skill to uplift someone. Your life will not define of what you gain but rather on what you share.

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  • From Darkness to Light: My Five-Year Journey of Self-Actualization

    I decided to share everything that I learned from my own experience. How I turn my life around? From being unemployed for five years and coming from a small community. My five years of being unemployed for five years, felt like prison to me. This is the reason that I consider today as my second life. I never imagine that this day will come. I am dreaming the life I am praying for. I could never imagine that I could finally be free out of my dark years. How it begins? My journey to freedom and to my self-actualization. Let me share with you the lesson I learned. This is a series of confession hoping that someone can learn from my mistakes.

    Humility

    Life broke me to hundred pieces in order for me to learn my lesson. The word of humility, it takes me five years to fully understand this one. One of the secrets I want share with you if you pray or desire something never does it for yourself. If you wanted something do not look how it can serve you but rather how it can help from the people that surround. My life dramatically changes when I change my mindset. From always looking for my own convenience, I change the thoughts of my head by asking ” How I serve someone today?” In does five years I am looking for a way to free myself. To run from all the emotional and verbal abuse I suffered that time. Even family members could saw as the worthless creature on Earth if they cannot see any value from you. In this experience thought valuable lesson that I learned. In this world, we are not here as consumer. We are here to create something. We needed to use our limited time to produce. We needed to provide convenience for others.

    This is one universal laws of universe; you needed to serve. For whom? It does not matter but there is a necessity that you needed to share. If you look around, we are all just a slave with different master. The things that we receive free should be used to provide convenience to others. The time that you have should be spent to serve others. Only this way you gain something from your own convenience. Something it will not happen two ways. But believe me, Universe has its way to pay you. Let me tell you the universe pay you trice as what you share. Be sure that whatever you share is good because Universe is fair. It is always more than you give. I am not telling that you need to do something with the intention of getting. No, it’s not that way how it works.

    You need to remind yourself that you are just a foreigner in this world. You will only spend limited time here. You needed to pay for everything that you enjoy here. Treat this world as your training ground. We are always the slaves never be the masters. Yes, we can master whatever talent that we have so that we `can serve better. If we became the better slaves through time, the universe would pay you enough. To become a happy slave is what we needed to adhere. What a happy slave means? It is serving our master’s with grateful heart. In serving we find our purpose. The reason to strive to be better. Not to gain anything but to show to praise for everything that we are receiving.

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    1. Mediocre

      Mediocre

      Being the best will not ensure your happiness. The society lied about it. You do not need unnecessary pressure just to gain what you desire. Acting fool can save your life from unnecessary drama. The reality of life could tear you apart if you let yourself to be immersed in deceit. Only being the best among the rest just means more expectations and obligation. The world is made of individuals who are always looking for a way to exploit someone. They are people who willing to use your talents for their own interest. They be fooled in the false promise, at the end of the day they always thinking about themselves. Humans had an instinct to always look for the safest place. They value you not what you are but what they can gain for you.

      Everyone always wanted the comfort, but not all are willing to sacrifice. Listen their conversation, no one is good except them. No one deserve better more than themselves. Like a lion who patiently waiting for the prey, for their food. Act fool if you do not want secret enemies who are praying for your downfall. But they are also the one who will snatch your trophy. Life is full of lion who had no pangs. They avoid dirty works but secretly desire the fruits of your labor. You can hear words as sweet as honey. Please, be careful in the sound of applauds. It is easy to be drown in materials things. The expensive cars but do not have the freedom to travel. Big and expensive house but you cannot sleep. Billions of moneys but could give you the peace of mind. Not Be fooled, nothing is permanent.

      No, I am not trying to tell you to be lazy. I am just trying to tell you treat each day as a gift. Love what you do. Enhance your skills not for materials gain but rather as an offering. Your job is not your life. Be careful in what you think your definition of happiness. Give with a smile in your heart. Without expectation and hesitation. Enjoy life as what you have right now. Forgive others and always forgive yourself. This moment will pass in a blink of an eye. Your hardships today became a memory. Just think that this life is a training ground for the true life, beyond. Worry not our training is short. Gain the lesson and move on. These people, these things make this adventure a little exciting.

    2. Reading Routine

      How to have an effective reading routine?

      1. Associate it with activities you enjoy. For example, if you love scrolling on your social media. Like Facebook, following pages with topics that interest you, is a good start. Mostly, it takes only seconds to finish, reading.

      2.Read beyond your academic requirem. Find topics that suite your taste. We need to admit that reading romantic novels had different effects on us other than watching it through movies and watching television series.

      3. Find a group with the same interests as you. Either personally or virtually, it is an effective way to encourage us. In a group, we had a chance to share our insights about our experiences reading.

      4. Make a specific time for the day to read. For example, before sleeping. We all know that reading helps us to relax. An inspirational book every morning can make our day, great.

      5. Don’t force yourself. Start small. Like reading a short quote each day. As a source of inspiration. Learn one or two words a day from a dictionary. As the day passed you will be surprised how you grow.

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    3. Hello World!

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